9 Month Old - Screams

The only thing I can say is to remove yourself from the screaming. Give yourself a time out, so to speak. She is learning that if she screams, you come running. I know it's hard, because you feel guilty and feel like you need to "fix it"; but in this situation, you need to do the opposite. Believe me, I know it's really hard but if it takes you going outside and counting to ten while she calms herself down, then do it. Reward the stopping and not the screaming. It's a process. But, she will get the idea that NOT screaming gets her further with you then the screaming does.

I hate to say it but i agree with Tessa. She is getting exactly what she wants when she yells. So you can not give it to her or she well keep screaming until you do. Do everything at your pace and get ear plugs!!
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Hi J., I agree with Tessa "award the stopping not the screaming". She's learning she has a voice ~ but I don't mean just a yellin' voice, but an opinion. She is now learning that she has a say in what happens & when she wants something, she wants it 5 minutes ago, right? Kids who never have their needs met get to a point where they don't try b/c there's not point in trying. the fact that she yells means her needs are getting met ~ just not on her time frame.
* I put cheerios or bananas on the tray before I put my baby in.
* a sippy cup with diluted juice buys me a little time. At 9 months, its worth a try.
* the crib thing is tough b/c she can see you. so no advice there.
* If I need a minute, I give my 11 month old a big pot and the wisk for my little guy to play with. The wisk makes a muted sound so you're not going to lose your head while you're doing stuff.
* A quick bath can recalibrate a grumpy baby. Good luck.