B.,
I have much to tell you on this subject as we went through the same stuff with our daughter plus some other complications. My daughter was diagnosed at 6 weeks and was on antibiotics from the age of 2 weeks. We have done mulitiple VCUGs, MAG3 renals, and ultrasounds. She had surgery at Children's at 9 months and is completely healed! You many never need to have the surgery for your daughter (it is just that my daughter had multiple problems).
About reflux... educate yourself all that you can before your appointment with the urologist. Learn all about the urinary system so you can have a better educated discussion with your doctor. There are several types of reflux. My daughter had an ectopic ureter (it attached under the kidney rather than at the top). This was not something that would resolve itself. Other types of reflux tend to resolve themselves over time. This is not an uncommon problem with girls.
Your daughter is at risk for multiple UTIs. Just be sure to be regular with the antibiotics. You want to give it at the same time each day so that the medicine remains in her system. Do not give your daughter bubble baths and only use baby shampoo.
If you live in the San Diego area I HIGHLY recommend Dr. Aligiri. He is our hero as he fixed my daughter completely in a rather complicated surgery. I trust him with my daughters life!!!! He is located at Children's hospital. My daughter is now two and has been off of antibiotics for 1.5 years and has not had a UTI!!!!!
If you have any questions please email me through Mamasource!
Love,
J.