L.R.
I also am a NICU nurse, so I am very familiar with your situation. I think that you guys are on the right track with the g-tube. If her tone is interfering with her ability to nipple an adequate amount than the tube is the way to go. You guys will be able to go home and get on with the business of being a family without constantly worrying that she isn't eating appropriately. Shell be able to eat what she can, then the rest goes down the tube. Speech therapy and occupational therapy will still work with her outpatient to help her optimize her development with her low tone. But, as I tell all my families in your situation, the tube let's you GO HOME and get on with your lives. I know this situation is very hard. Good luck.