7 1/2 Month Old Tired All the Time

Updated on April 12, 2010
A.K. asks from Minneapolis, MN
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I have a 7 1/2 month old boy who was born 6 weeks premature. So far, he has been meeting all of the developmental milestones of his "non-preemie" peers. He sits up unassisted, can roll over every which way. He's very social and eats well. He's off the charts in height and weight.

So, my question is this - is it normal for him to seem tired all the time? He is a great sleeper, and sleeps between 15-18 hours a day(including night), which isn't that much more than the "normal" amount. He almost always sleeps through the night, although he has been waking up to fuss at about 5 am lately. The thing is, he will wake up from a nap, play for about 15 minutes, then start acting super tired (rubbing his eyes, sucking his thumb obsessively, putting his hand over his face (a signature move), etc.) I'm usually able to keep him up for 1 1/2 to 2 hours between naps, and a little longer before bedtime. The weirdest thing is, when we put him in his high chair to eat, he immediately starts the "thumb in mouth/hand over face" move that signals he's super tired. Then, the entire meal, he sticks that thumb in his mouth after every bite! What's his deal?
Thanks for your advice, ladies.

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T.C.

answers from Albuquerque on

Hi Amy,
From a developmental standpoint a lot of sleep is *very* important to newborns, toddlers and young children.

We *know* long naps and a full night's sleep is essential for normal brain development, and studies are *suggesting* babies who get more sleep are less likely to have ADHD later on.

As long as your baby's intake of food is enough over an average 24 hour period (and it sounds like it is, because you say his height and weight are good), I would go with it.

Good luck!
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A.C.

answers from Cincinnati on

Hi~
when he wakes up from sleeping is he well rested at first or always sleepy? Does he snore (should not be noisy after 6 months? - http://www.parenting.com/article/Pregnancy/Health/Ask-Dr-...) Has he always been sleepy reason i ask is because being born 6 weeks early means his lung function is not as mature. Are all meal time “sleepy” or just certain times of day?

You may want to talk to your pediatrician about your concerns.

Good luck!

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D.H.

answers from Indianapolis on

I would mention it to your Pediatrician and make sure that he doesn't have something else wrong.........is he cutting teeth? Sometimes that is an issue with being tired, but cranky usually goes with that.
You know your son better than anyone else, so if you are concerned, get him an appointment.
He could be bored I guess, try to introduce new toys to him or something to catch his attention.
Good luck and hang in there. Get him checked and be safe rather than sorry.

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L.P.

answers from Chicago on

My daughter had an ear infection at this age that I totally missed. If these things that you have noticed are strange I would call the Ped. When did he start to seem "tired?" Always go with your gut!

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N.T.

answers from Detroit on

My son was 2 months premature and he did a lot of sleeping for the first 2-3 mos and then did the opposite! I could only get him to take one nap a day at that age. I would check with your ped. Maybe his iron level needs to be checked, we had to supplement for a while. Also is he on a schedule? I know not everyone believes in that, but my son's naptime was always the same every day no matter what. His bedtime was also always the same as well. We always did a bedtime routine before naps and bedtime so he could wind down and knew it was time to sleep (books, brush teeth, a little snuggle). Hope that helps. good luck:)

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E.I.

answers from Duluth on

he might be trying to tell you he doesnt want to eat the solid food, and thats ok.

my sister was a HUGE sleeper. me not so much. my sister is now going to be 25 this summer and she still needs at LEAST 12 hrs of sleep every night in order to function. if she doesnt get it, shes not going to feel right. dont let the good old "8 hrs of sleep" rule make you try to worry if someone sleeps more or less. fact is we should all sleep the amount of time it takes us to feel good when we wake up. at the same time, morning sunshine or light is important to feeling like waking up :P

so i would say that he just requires more sleep than the average kid, and therse nothing wrong with that. DONT try to keep him up, that makes it harder to fall asleep later, and i cant believe you arent saying how cranky he is :P
rearrange your schedule, let him go to sleep when he needs to, then he can really grow and as he grows his sleep needs might change a little. make sure he goes to bed early enough at night, make sure he doesnt have to get up at the crack of dawn (but make sure he feels energetic when he wakes up) and let him have a nap or more.

you can take him in to the doctor and make sure there are no medical issues, vitamin deficiencies and whatnot. but im going to say that hes still under a year old, his primary source of nutrition is breastmilk or formula, not solids, and sleep is something you need to let him get no matter how much it is and how long he sleeps. sleep is important for growth, so when they grow its going to seem like they eat and eat and eat and wake up a lot, then all of a sudden they sleep forEVER and presto, they are bigger :P its really funny!

so relax, im sure hes just normal for his own needs. :)

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A.K.

answers from Minneapolis on

I can chime in on the thumb sucking after every bite. My daughter did this at about this age too. She was sucking her fingers to help her swallow the food. Babies this age still don't know how to get things down especially if it is thicker consistency. He will grow out of this once he learns to get the food down his throat on his own. Let him suck his thumb though.

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