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If your daughter doesn't want to do solids now, feel free to just drop it and try again later. Babies can get ALL their nutritional needs met from breastmilk and/or formula all the way up through their first birthday, so she's not missing out on any necessary nutrients. No need to stress yourself *and* your little one by pushing solids when she's reluctant. Try to think of the first solid feedings as a 'getting acquainted' thing, almost a form of 'messy play'. If you feel more relaxed about it, chances are good your child will too.
This link has a nice overview about introducing solids http://www.askdrsears.com/html/3/t032000.asp
I also liked nutritionist Ellyn Satter's book "Child of Mine - Feeding with Love and Good Sense", it helped ease my anxieties a lot
Good luck!