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Hi L.! I did just what you said you were going to do -map out her daily schedule. For about a week and a half, I just let my baby do her thing, when she wanted to do it, and wrote everything down. When she woke up in the am, when she was hungry for food or milk, when she went down for naps and how long they lasted, when ready for bed. My days had seemed so scattered, with no continuity, but once I wrote it all down, there really was a pattern!! I was able to anticipate naps, work my daily errands around mealtimes, it was like I finally had a handle on things! It was great, cause I was also better able to decipher what my baby was telling me, instead of throwing everthing i could at her, trying to find out what was wrong-frustrating the both of us. It may seem like a complicated task, to write everything down, but it really isn't. I just kept a big notebook handy and jotted down notes and times, then at the end of the week, compared each day. Good Luck, I know it was a big help to me! BTW, I still do it every 3 mo. or so, when it seems like the old schedule isn't working anymore. I just recently did it, cause we went from 3 naps to 2 =(