I did not read all the previous responses so I apologize if I am repeating.
Anyway:
1) This is a school, sport activity/team?
2) Thus, WHO does the Coach, work for? Your daughter's school or that other school they co-op with?
-Is the Coach... the SAME person that drives the bus and buses the kids???? Or there is a "Bus Driver" who is employed by the school or is a private bus driver from a contracted company?
- IS the Coach, of YOUR daughter's group, also there... on that bus and waiting WITH the kids for pick up?
- IS there, any other Assistant "Coaches" there too? Or J. that one Coach?
3) IF, this is a SCHOOL sport activity, then, the School... and its employees (ie: the Coach), is required to follow... SCHOOL protocol/procedures/rules/policies/safety rules/emergency rules, etc.
And if not, then that Coach was wrong. Because, the Coach left the scene and left one student, alone. And thus, you would make a formal complaint, to the, School/Principal, etc.
-- However, IF this was a sport activity, that was NON-school related and was an extracurricular sports group of a separate non-school organization... then THAT organization and its Employees (ie: that Coach), is required to follow that organization's rules/policies/procedures, etc. So then, you would make a formal complaint, to that Coach's "Boss" or organization.
4) To M., this is not a case of it's your daughter's "fault." Yes, your daughter walked to the edge of the school to look for you. And she was perhaps still in the line of sight, of that Coach. HOWEVER, the Adult in charge of supervising the kids, IS STILL RESPONSIBLE for watching, the kids in that group. Even if J. one kid is left and still waiting for their parent. AND that Coach, should have.... gone over to your daughter, to tell her nicely, to stay near the pick up spot. And then, stayed near her and walked her back to the pick up spot. Not J., left her there and then, the Coach left too. Leaving NO ONE, in charge. So that... is wrong of the Coach. AND ANYWAY, the Coach... DOES HAVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER, right? The Coach, SHOULD have, called you. To inform you, that your daughter is waiting and the last one waiting... and that it was raining etc. Because, you also, arrived there 10 minutes early. So you were not late. BUT... NO ONE was there, the Coach was already gone.
And you found your daughter, waiting in the van of a parent.
5) NO matter what... the COACH was and is, responsible for... waiting with and supervising all the kids, until ALL the parents have arrived and picked up their kid.
The COACH... was wrong. Because he/she.... left the scene. And you were even early, having gotten there at 5:50. But the Coach was already gone... EVEN IF the Coach, saw your daughter go looking for you around the corner of the school. The Coach, STILL left the scene and left your daughter.... by herself.
It makes NO difference, if your daughter J. stood in one spot or walked to look around the corner of the building. The Coach is still responsible for keeping track, of all the kids in her/his, group. And especially being this was in the evening, after school hours... being this is a school related sports activity.
But, the Coach, STILL left the scene, EVEN if he/she knew.... that your daughter was by herself... and/or left with an adult... who is a "stranger." And, that person your daughter was with in the van... is NOT a "designated" "Emergency Contact" nor an alternate parental designated "pick up" person for your daughter. Schools, require, these designations by the parent. And schools, ONLY can release a child, to an adult, that is per their Emergency Contact forms etc.
Anyway, many school rules were violated here, by the Coach.
SO... any complaints you have, you need to contact the School, and document this, and put it in writing, and speak to the Principal.
Or, if this is a non-school sports group, you do this and go to that organizations, Boss/Director.
And of course, the Coach was wrong to yell at you and blame you.
The Coach, was wrong... for LEAVING the scene, leaving your daughter there by herself. And it was still only 5:50 at that point.
The Coach, is also wrong... for NOT following through on LOOKING for your daughter as she walked around the corner of the building. AND for assuming... that you picked up your daughter. As the supervising adult there, the Coach, is responsible... for LOOKING, actually LOOKING to see... if your daughter was still there or not... BEFORE he/she left herself.
The Coach, left a kid, unattended.
That is the bottom line.
I work at my kids' school.
There are very specific... RULES and policies and procedures... about supervision of kids, when they are in a school activity.
This is not your daughter's fault per say.
And anyway, the Coach, COULD HAVE CALLED YOU... being he/she has your cell phone number.
And the Coach... SHOULD have, gone over to your daughter, or called out for her or signaled her... to NOT go over to the edge of the school.
So, the Coach, was, wrong.
The Coach, made NO... effort, to contact your daughter as she walked in that direction, and the Coach made no effort, to contact you.
And then the Coach left the scene. Early. It was only 5:50pm when you got there, and the Coach was already gone. And your daughter was alone.
As I said, I work at my kids' school... AND IF I see, a kid walking behind a building or to the "edge" of a school's perimeter.... no matter what time it is: I GO OVER TO THAT CHILD, and I tell them to come back to the school area, AND I also, walk that child back, to a safer area. AND I also make sure, that child is not alone. I stay there OR, call over another school staff.
THAT is what the Coach needed to do. But did not.
And the Coach, LEFT the scene, EVEN if, he/she SAW your daughter go looking for you around the corner. The Coach, made NO EFFORT, to follow through, nor did the Coach supervise or stay by your daughter or have her come back to the pick up spot. And made no effort, to call you.
The Coach, J. left the scene, even while knowing where your daughter was.