My daughter turned 4 last june and she loves tinkerbell so we had a tink themed party with the tink table cloth, banner, napkins and plates, etc... And since tinkerbell is crafty we did a craft party. I purchased little ceramic figurines and accrylic paint and let all the kids (and the adults that wanted to) paint one and they could either take it home or leave it as a gift for my daughter. Since times are tough for everyone and many people couldn't afford to bring a gift. Now we have them on a shelf hanging in her room and everyday she can look at them and remember her 4th birthday, and she knows exactly who painted what for her. We also had a tinkerbell cake made and sent home candies, and little pictures we had done of her, and grab bag toys. For food we had cake, and i had cold sandwiches, and chips and drinks. Keep it simple and have fun with it. Good luck.