I have a big, tough question for you Mom!
Why did you write two different posts about the same boy (unless you have twins) about different areas of development? You should probably not be asking us anymore, but should be putting two and two together, and getting some evaluation done since you are clearly worried about his development, and when any child has more than one area of concen, you should not leave that to any type of chance whatsoever. Development is simpley to important. Smart has nothing to do with processing issues, hyperactivity, or speech and langauge delays. While there is not enough information here in your post to suggest anything to you other than this could be a totally typical four year old, in my Old lady, educational advocate experience, I have this HUGE hunch that you need to take this child for a direct observation from someone who can give you some real answers based on data, not speculation. Two flags, do not pass go, get someone who really knows what is typical (a professional) to advise you. Never, never wait and see with development, and if you have more than one area of concern, do not delay.
When you write to the school distirict, like I suggested in my last post to you, just say that you are requesting an evaluation becasue you suspect that your child has a disablity, and leave it at that. That is the language that triggers a publicly funded evaluation. Write, don't call. Mail it today.
M.
Don't mean to poo poo any one, but get a professional to advise you on what to do for this situation, and if they tell you it is just what you are feeding your child, then go for it. Never heard of that happening to a child with a true developmental issue though, so be aware that you have reason to get a professional to tell you what you need to do here. This is not were you should be getting treatment advice, but advice that says you need better advice, up close and personal and with standardized data behind it, to tell you what treatment and intervention your son may need.
MR