R.W.
I had no problems with my girls but I let them go potty when I did and that worked out great. I know my sister in law let her kids pick out a couple of potty toys that they only got to play with while using the potty. With them picking out the toys and wanting to play with them she had the reverse effect. Lots of times they would want to sit on the potty well after they were done doing their business. All children are different. She is only 3 so I really wouldn't be to worried. Chex cereal is a good finger snack that will help with the bowel movements. Good Luck!