These are not all true periods. These are normal (for your age) bleeding episodes from hormones struggling to work. A kid new to the basketball team doesn't always make the shot or the pass - a body new to progesterone and estrogen doesn't always get everything working without a lot of practice time. And the body is not a precision machine anyway. Some women never get regular periods, which is frustrating. But very few teens are totally regular. (And although you didn't ask, let me add that this is why it's practically impossible to avoid pregnancy by just using a calendar as birth control - so when your time comes to be sexual, I hope you will remember to take care of contraception first.)
Your best resources are a caring parent or aunt, the school nurse and your own doctor. You can call your doctor on your own too - leave a message and a good time/number to reach you. Start practicing speaking to your medical professional on your own if you can, even if you can't do the whole thing or take the whole matter into your own hands. With practice, you will get better at it and feel less self-conscious. But you've done a great job here in listing your dates and your symptoms. Start keeping records of these things so you can always report to your doctor if something seems off to you! Lots of adult women don't do that, and i makes it harder. So you are off to a good start!