3 Month Old and Sleeping

Updated on February 09, 2011
V.W. asks from Chisago City, MN
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When my son was 2 months, he was awake most of the day with 3 2 hour naps. He would wake up once a night at around 6am. It seems like since he turned 3 months on January 29, he has been asleep most of the day and is awake for 3 2 hour periods of time. Since he turned 3 months, he has started sleeping through the night.

We usually wake up around 9, he eats and is awake for a couple hours (Falling asleep around 11). I feed him at 12, but he is basically eating while still sleeping. At 3, when I feed him again, he will stay awake for a couple more hours (Falling asleep around 5). I feed him at 6, but again he is basically eating while sleeping. At 9, when I feed him again, he still stay awake till 10 or so. I feed him at midnight before I go to bed so that he'll sleep longer in the morning, but again he's eating while sleeping.

When he is awake, he's fussy because he's teething (That's what my mom told me, and I think she's right because he has all the signs... Spit bubbles constantly, hands always in the mouths, licking his gums and sticking out his tongue). When he's not fussing or sleeping, he'll smile and play with me. He'll even "talk" (Baby babble). Yet, when I try to do something like read him a book or get him to play with toys he'll get fussy again. He never gets tummy time because he'll start fussing before I even get him turned over. I feel bad because I don't think he's going to develop like he should without books and tummy time, but I hate hearing my little boy cry.

He doesn't have a fever, or any signs of sickness besides the sleeping.

Is this normal? What can I do to improve his feelings towards books, toys, and tummy time?

Edited To Add - He is formula fed (I breastfed for the first 6 weeks). At first I fed on demand, but for while now he has needed to be fed on schedule. If he gets less than 5oz in a bottle, he's not satisfied. If he gets more, he throws up. Even though, when he is awake, he is usually crying because of hunger after about 2 and a half hours if I feed him sooner than 3 hours he throws up. I'm not talking about spit up, I'm talking about the entire bottle that he just drank coming right back up. So, even though when I was pregnant I 100% wanted to feed on demand... I can't.

Also, by teething I didn't mean that teeth were about to poke out... I meant that they have started to slowly move down in the gums, but are still no where near poking through. According to several websites that can begin as early as 3 months. Maybe he's teething, maybe he's not... He's still fussy.

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K.C.

answers from Los Angeles on

My baby is just three days older than yours. : ) I also have a 3.5 year old, so I've been through this once before (which only makes it slightly easier!)

First of all, most babies this age aren't ready to listen to books. Not enjoying reading now is in NO WAY an indicator that your baby won't like books later. If you really want to show him books, pick ones with very few words and lots of pictures of faces - that's what babies like to look at now.

As for toys, he is really still too young to be that interested in many toys too. Find a few things that are easy to grab. Babies this age also like patterns, like black and white stripes, so look for stuff with that. If you have a Gymini, this is a great age to lie him down on his back and let him play with toys that dangle from above him. I have this one but there are tons of others available: http://www.amazon.com/Tiny-Love-Deluxe-Lights-Activity/dp...

Lots of babies dislike tummy time. Just keep doing it. Even 3-5 minutes a couple of times a day will help develop the muscles for raising his head, pushing up, and eventually rolling over. Put a flat mirror down in front of him so that if he pushes up, he can look down and see himself in the mirror.

Here is another REALLY great toy for little babies. When they are young, you can lay it flat for tummy time (it even has a mirror). As they grow, they can play with it sitting up. It can also be clipped to the stroller or high chair when they are bigger so they can play with it then too. http://www.discoverytoyslink.com/esuite/control/product?P... My daughter loves it, as do many other people I know who have bought it for their babies.
If you want good clips to attach it with, try these: http://www.discoverytoyslink.com/esuite/control/product?P...

As for sleep and eating... it sounds like he's doing well with that. Ask his doctor if it's still necessary to feed exactly every three hours, or if you can go more by his cues for when he's really hungry.

Oh, and drooling and putting hands in their mouth is really normal at this age too. It is very unlikely that your baby is actually teething yet. Teething usually starts closer to six months. Here is a great teether when you're ready: http://www.discoverytoyslink.com/esuite/control/product?P... (it's on sale - 20% off - through Feb 20)

My daughter still isn't really on a schedule yet, but I'm hoping to get her on one soon.

You sound like you're doing a great job caring for your baby and it sounds like he is growing and developing just as he should be!

K.
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K.D.

answers from Dallas on

I think you should look into two things. Look up infant reflux and also formula allergy. You say if he gets less than 5 oz per feeding he is not satisfied. That may be true, but he may also be suffering from some stomach acid coming up his throat..drinking more will soothe that feeling (for a moment anyway). I am thinking that if he is sleeping while eating it doesn't bother him quite as much because hes completely out of it. While awake though, hes troubled by it. My son who is 4 months old now has reflux. He was generally unhappy most of the time, BUT he was sleeping through the night at 2.5 months old. My girlfriend took care of him while I ran some errands for 2 hours one day and she suggested to me that he might have reflux, and she was right. All babies have 'reflux' to some degree, hence spitting up...but if your baby is unhappy a lot, arches his back during a feeding or while you are trying to burp him, (the feedings that he is most awake for) the throwing up, these are major signs. How does your baby fall asleep best? Does he like sitting up better? Good luck, hope you figure out whats ailing your little guy!

S.B.

answers from Minneapolis on

Check in with your pediatrician. Don't feel weird, it's normal for new moms to go in all the time! There's a small chance that he has pyloric stenosis if he's puking up the entire bottle, and there's clearly something bugging his tummy. You'll feel better if you get him checked out. Your mommy instinct is telling you something's not quite right--listen to it.

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L.S.

answers from Spokane on

At 3 months he doesn't NEED books or toys - just you! Talk to him while making eye contact.

I actually doubt he's teething. The drooling and hand chewing is VERY normal. Young babies learn by putting things in their mouths.

Tummy time is 'one of those thing'. Neither of my older 2 liked being on their tummies and both developed just fine. In fact, both were early walkers.

You don't say if he's formula or breastfed, but you might want to try feeding on-demand. Meaning, you feed him when he's hungry. Have you tried feeding him *before* he falls asleep? Also, babies hit growth spurts every 3 months or so and need the sleep to grow.

He sounds totally normal, so don't worry :o)

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