J.A.
I'm not sure if you still need the advice, but this is what worked for my son's 1 years and is working for his 2 years.
I mostly used the hollistic teething tablets with the lady in the floaty kind of dress on the label. They seen to help him a lot.
My ped also told me that if it's hurting for him to lay flat, put a couple of phone books under the feet at the head of his bed. He said that keeping the head above the heart helps to minimize the discomfort. (Let me tell you, after having my tonsils out in Dec. I found out OH so well how true this is.)
He also said that there is a lot of truth to the oldest of all remadies for teething babies. Brandy/ Whisky in VERY, VERY, V-E-R-Y, small amounts is okay, and even helpful. His instructions were: fill a shot glass, Now drink it. Fill and repeat. Now that you're a little more relaxed- fill it an 1/8 to a 1/4 of the way. Using a Q-tip, dip in alcohol, then rub it on rim of shot glass to remove any extra liquid. Now that the Q-tip is almost dry, swab on affected area. DO NOT repeat more than 6 times per day, at least 4 hours apart. (You don't want to be drunk while hubbies away, and more than that's not good for the baby anyway! :O) )
The amount of alcohol you're giving him is less than what occurs natrally in an over ripe pear. (Pears ferment as they get soft.) The alcohol also helps clean the area of bacteria; which, if his gums are starting to open, then close again, can cause an infection. Let me tell you, an infection in the gums around an irrupting tooth is UNBAREABLE! My 12 year morals got infected twice. The dentist finally cut my gums open to let them grow in easier. (Also a VERY painful option. I had 4 HUGE ulsers in my mouth right where I chew.)
I know, EVERY mom reading this post is going to tell you about the dangers of Alcohol Poisoning by using brandy/whisky, but I SWEAR, it worked- and has for longer than any of us have been alive! Take care, ~J