19 Month Old Dependent on PACIFIERS...help!

Updated on February 24, 2007
A.M. asks from Avondale, AZ
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OK...so I got my 19 mo. old son almost weened off a pacifier, I was ONLY giving it to him at naps and betime!! In the past few weeks he has been cutting his molars and it has been pure hell! When he first started teething he didn't want anything but a pacifier, but as he got more teeth I was able to get him to chew on toys or something else...but now all of a sudden all he wants is a pacifier again. I have tried everything to get him to get back to our old routine of just naps and bedtime, but he has ACTUALLY started hiding them behind his crib in the morning before I come in and crawls under there throughout the day to get them!!! (He thinks he's sneaky!!) He knows where I hide them in his room, and he can't reach them, but he just sits in there and throws an absolute fit that I won't give him one....and I recently moved them to my bathroom and he now has figured out that is where they are and he sits at my bedroom door and has a fit now!!! I had him weened off a bottle at 10 months...why is this whole pacifier thing so much harder?? I need suggestions on two things.....1st: does anyone have any other suggestions for something for me to give him to chew on throughout the day for teething besides the obvious (ie..teething ring, wet washcloth, teething gel, none of those seem to help him!) and 2nd: I need help weening him off those stupid things...I absolutly think when a child can talk to you, they don't need a pacifier anymore!!! I know I shouldn't be, but I personally get embarassed by my son always needing and wanting a pacifier!!! It's not like he sucks on it while he's awake, he just chews...so there has to be something else I can give him!!! And if I could just get rid of the pacifiers all together, I would be VERY happy!!!
Thanks...A.

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S.

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A.,

My first son was a huge paci lover. We had him down to naps and bedtime too. Then when he started teething he would chew them, exactly as you described. One day I went in his room, saw that he had chewed it up, told him it was broken. We threw it in the trash and that was it. I did keep another one hidden, just in case, in the garage. But everytime he asked for it, I just said remember, you broke it and we had to throw it away. It is all gone. You are a big boy now, so you don't need it. Paci's are for babies. We had that conversation for about three days then he quit asking about it. Another method is to give the paci's to a baby. Tell him he is a big boys and that baby whatever needs them. That is what worked for my niece. It will be easier than you think once you do it. Good luck!

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K.R.

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Just like the other moms said - throw them away. Quit hiding them. Keep trying chew toys.

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B.A.

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Hi A.,
Not sure if this will help but with my youngest it was easier to get her off the bottle then the pacifier too. She would chew on it all the time and I was really wanting her off of it. One day I finally told her that it was chewed up and icky looking so she should go throw it away. So she went to the trash and tossed it in and I just never bought another one. When she would ask for one I would remind her that it went bye bye in the trash and there are no more. Hope this helps or at least gives you hope that it's not impossible.
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J.J.

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While I have been out of the teething circle for a while (my baby is 5yrs old), my cousin's little boy is teething and she says to try dill pickles. Her son LOVES them! They are cold and help with the teething, but also the vinegar helps swelling of gums. I remember when we also got rid of the pacifiers for both our kids about the same time you are in right now. We took them away, and had them throw them in the trash so they could see they were not coming back. (Obviously, hiding them does not work). It took us a few days of a lot of no sleeping, but we got rid of them. Good luck and let us know what happens!

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