A.J.
I know what you are going through Momma. I have a 23 month old that stop taking naps at 20 months old. If he did take a nap he would be up most of the night and wanted all kind of attention. You are doing everything right, but sometimes children just don't need naps anymore. You might want to try with the day care not giving him a nap for a day or so and see if he will sleep. Sometimes it is the fact that he is not getting enough play or something, so maybe you might need the daycare to do more play with him. My youngest is a BIG momma's boy too. Like you, I cannot go to the bathroom, and I cannot really do anything with out him wanting to be by me or attached to me. But I have found a few toys that he really likes and that seems to help keep him busy for a little while. You may just have to let him cry it out when he wants to be picked up, as that is what I have done with my Son too. It is hard but I knew that I had to do it. He has learned to keep busy. Another thing that you could try like on the weekends when you are home is if you have nieces or nephews that are a little older to come over for a while so that they can play with him. Just an idea. I have an older boy who is 3 as well, and sometimes they play and that gives me a break..
Good luck! It is hard to not get much sleep, and to have a little monkey on you all of the time. :o)
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I know what you are going through Momma. I have a 23 month old that stop taking naps at 20 months old. If he did take a nap he would be up most of the night and wanted all kind of attention. You are doing everything right, but sometimes children just don't need naps anymore. You might want to try with the day care not giving him a nap for a day or so and see if he will sleep. Sometimes it is the fact that he is not getting enough play or something, so maybe you might need the daycare to do more play with him. My youngest is a BIG momma's boy too. Like you, I cannot go to the bathroom, and I cannot really do anything with out him wanting to be by me or attached to me. But I have found a few toys that he really likes and that seems to help keep him busy for a little while. You may just have to let him cry it out when he wants to be picked up, as that is what I have done with my Son too. It is hard but I knew that I had to do it. He has learned to keep busy. Another thing that you could try like on the weekends when you are home is if you have nieces or nephews that are a little older to come over for a while so that they can play with him. Just an idea. I have an older boy who is 3 as well, and sometimes they play and that gives me a break..
Good luck! It is hard to not get much sleep, and to have a little monkey on you all of the time. :o)