G.W.
Hi C..
I know for sure getting her use to sweet anything isn't good. My Pediatrician just about bugs out if she finds out I gave my 2 year old juice of any kind. She is a big stickler on NO SUGAR for kids, they don't need it. Please don't get her use to that.
The fact that your daughter doesn't take to milk isn't a bad thing. There are lots of children who for one reason or other do not like milk. However you just have to be creative in finding other ways to get her calcium. You can get the dairy in by offering yogurt once a day, cheese daily and make pudding using whole milk daily. Do a search on google and you will find loads of info on other calcium enriched foods for your daughter that is actually healthier then cows milk.
When she drank formula, was it always cold or hot? If you always gave her warm formula, sometimes it can be that simple of you warming the milk for her.
But as for her drinking milk.. Try this:
Try 2% milk instead of whole milk.
Bright Beggnings makes a Soy Pediatric Drink in Vanilla. Its milk free and lactose free but has 230mg of calcium.
Also Organic Milk is better then soy.
Try Rice Dream Enriched Rice Milk.
Letting your toddler dip crackers or low sugar cookies in the the milk and then drinking the rest.
Another option would be Start slowly. Give your daughter formula. Then slowly over the days to come add about an ounce of whole milk with formula, the next day, two ounces of whole milk, the next 3 ounces, keep doing that until you are giving her all whole milk.. If you dont want to use formula, you can always try adding some water.
Maybe you can try a different brand of milk. I know for myself Alta Dena Milk is one my 2 year loves. If I buy other kinds of milk, she will drink it, but not to much of it
I wouldnt suggest adding any sort of mix.. ie; strawberry or chocolate , because again its sugar and they don't need it. You'll find all kinds of studies on white milk vs chocolate milk, but it doesn't matter how you put it, sugar is sugar.
Maybe whole milk is to heavy for her. Try Soy or goats milk.
If you still give her a bottle, what about trying to give her milk in a sippy cup or use a straw. She might find it fun to drink it that way.
Good luck and let us know how it went.