A.T.
You've answered your own question......stick to anything she can pick up. The response previous to mine made some awesome suggestions and she's right, just get creative! That grill cheese idea is great, as you can get some veggies in there. Make little pizza's out of mini bagels or cut up bagel. Set them up on a cookie sheet, tablespoon of sauce, handful of mozzarella or whatever cheese you like and into the oven with them. They should be ready in no time. Give her some time to develop her motor skills and she will be getting it into her mouth soon enough. Good Luck!