T.D.
Our little guy just turned one yesterday and it sounds like you described his routine EXACTLY! This is his "regular" schedule. I didn't notice if you had a partner to help you. The only difference was that I was only able to partially breastfeed for the first two months. I get so frustrated because I can't get normal things done, like dishes, bills, etc. but my hubby and I switch shifts. I have 4am - 2:30pm, he has 2:30pm - 4am. This gives me time to take care of my 8 year old and rest here and there since our last child is due in less than a month. Believe me, there are still those days when I'm mush but I plan everything around daddy getting home, whether it's a nap, bills, attention to the 8 year old or catching up on email. I still bathe the baby at night, feed and rock him to sleep around 8pm and we can trade off if I feel like it but it is a tough schedule. Remember, it's not forever. If you are alone, enlist a friend or two to come and relieve you for a while each week, it may be the silver lining in your week, even if you just nap.
I'm hoping our little girl will be a sleeper and the complete opposite of our little boy but "God only gives you what you can handle...this too shall pass."
Hang in there, bless your heart, it will be better...
T