1-2-3 Magic: Does It Really Work?

Updated on August 08, 2008
J.C. asks from San Diego, CA
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Wondering if anyone has tried 1-2-3 Magic with their Children and would like some feedback on how it is working in your particular situation. My son is 3 yrs. old and has difficulty in listening at times. Also, there are times recently where he runs away from us and goes down the sidewalk(not into the road) etc. How would you apply 1-2-3 Magic in those situations? (I am trying to have discipline without yelling, arguing, spanking...that is why I would like to stick with this method if possible).

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C.C.

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My son attends Pre-K through the school district and his first teacher used 1-2-3 Magic and it worked well. We use our own version of 1-2-3 at home and only for little things. Big things; like running away from us isn't counted because it's an absolute no-no and dangerous so that's an immediate time out...the same for hitting and other extreme behaviors. As long as you both are consistent with him it will work. It's the healthiest way to go because they are given a chance to decide whether or not to continue the behavior and deal with the consequence. It's not going to be easy to implement for a 3 year old if you haven't already been doing it but after some time it will work so don't give up when he gets worse in the beginning. Best wishes.

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R.P.

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We do 1-2-3 with my 14 month old and it works very well, but we started it at home. When we are out, she is on a leash or in her stroller.
Good luck
R.

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H.H.

answers from Las Vegas on

I learned about 1-2-3-Magic at my church's nursury.
I tried it at home. As long as you are consistent , it works!
Heidi

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D.P.

answers from San Diego on

Read it. Modified it to 3-2-1. Works for me most of the time.

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