Our middle child,daughter, has an amazing capacity to love others...see the soul and not the outer shell with its' limitations. Her best friend is a boy who has Aspergers. She protects him from kids that sneer and make fun of him. She helps keep him on task at school. Teachers, the administrators, his IEP team, and his psychologist all know her...and say she has helped him so much to grow and thrive at school. She knows when to help him..and when to pull back and let him branch out. She is so compassionate to those in need and is always looking to bring joy and comfort to others. Oh...she embodies true goodness.
Our oldest has a talent that will someday make money....and it is his passion. He is in 7th grade and has an amazing mind when it comes to the performing arts. He plays multiple instruments and is begging to learn piano and flute over the summer..what kid asks that?? He has already earned a Rotary Music scholarship and is going to Japan as an exchange student next school year. He was selected because he knocked the socks off the Board of Directors with his comedy skit he memorized and recited to them. He knows how to work a crowd. Has dozens of Brian Regan and Bill Cosby skits memorized. Our house is always rocking because of the music he is playing at all hours of the day...but we tell him no drums past 6pm...the neighbors need some down time! He is very honest and compassionate as well...a sweet,loving 13 year old.
Our youngest is unbelievable good....just so good natured. He makes friends wherever he goes. He is very aware of other's feelings and likes to make people happy if they are sad or are having a bad day. He engages with adults as well as kids and will pay compliments to both. Not a week passes that an adult doesn't come up and tell me some sweet story about our son's interaction with them or their child. He is an awesome swimmer at age 6...this kid has a butterfly stroke that is just amazing. He made championship team at age 4 and 5. He must be 1/2 fish!!
Thanks for this moment to reflect on the goodness of my kids.
I always tell them to try their hardest in their academics...but what will help most in life is getting along with others and being respectful. That is what I am most proud of..not so much the A in Science.