M.E.
I have never went through a VBAC but am an RN. In the first pregnancy that you had I can only assume that the reason for not giving you pain medicine is that it would make it harder for you to push the baby out. It sounds like they were concerned about the baby decending. The only problem with having a VBAC and the reason most doctors won't do it is that if you have had trouble before getting the baby out then chances are great that you will have trouble again. And you don't want that baby getting stuck in the birth canal. If you go into the delivery room trying to have a VBAC and the baby gets stuck, it makes it harder to get the baby out per c-section. And all the while, it is very stressful physically to the baby. There are an array of complications and health hazards to your baby if this happens. If the baby is without oxygen for a certain period of time then they can have brain damage and may develop cerebal palsy which is caused from lack of oxygen at birth. This isn't something that goes away. The baby would be handicapped for the rest of its life. Doctors aren't as willing today to do VBACs because of all the health risks and the chances that an upset mother/father will sue them if something is wrong with the baby. So, I don't mean to scare you away from trying this because I think women who do are very brave and I respect them for wanting to have natural childbirth. But you have to remember that it will be very painful and you don't want to go through all that pain with labor for long hours (which is also physically hard on the baby) only to end up with a c-section anyway. I would definitely find a good OB-GYN doctor and discuss it fully with them first. They can better advise you. Again, I don't mean to scare you but, if it were me, I would stick with the birth process that is safest for my baby. You need to ask yourself if you would chance your baby's life/or lack thereof for your want to have a natural childbirth. Good luck and let me know what you decide. -M.