P.B.
Hi N.,
My best advise to you is to remember your man is only going to get really excited about what's going to happen "that night!". As far as spending a lot of money on dinners and romance... that would mostly be for your behalf. I have so much fun planning a great sex night that I'm worked up all day in anticipation myself! When I was younger I planned the dinner nights but it's always the bedroom nights that go down in history... never forgotten and always talked about :o)
Once I sent my panties in his lunch with a note to meet me for happy hour... I won't be wearing these! Then durring the night I handed him the key to our "low budget" hotel room. GREAT NIGHT... We didn't stay the night... we had three kids to wake up to :o)
Another time I wrote him a questionaire all on sex. This he loved!!! Then according to how he answers it, I went to goodwill and bought a few things that I made into a super sexy outfit. I've done this several times... he loves these outfits more than what i'd buy at fredricks for sure. Of course I teased him all day with MY answers to the questions over text. He always gets home faster on these nights!
We have the most fun a couple can have in celebrating eachother. We have been married for 23 years and I could probably write a book on fun things to do without spending a fortune. Be creative and think outside the box. As far were to eat... take out, a bottle of wine, in the backyard, candlelight and music topped off with a desert you both can wear... more fun than the "Top of the Point"!!!
Happy Anniversary and best of luck to you on planning the night of your life :o)