I have thought a lot about posting this same question! Since my tubal just about 2 years ago I have nothing but miserable cycles! I had extremely long cycles when I was a teen (anywhere from 30 to 60 days in between) so I was put on the pill. I was on for 8 years before having children (which was a very difficult road, 2 births and 3 miscarriages in 4 years, and 15+ Kidney stones). I chose to have a tubal because my doctors thought it would be best that I do not have any more pregnancies due to the strain being put on my kidneys (and the emotional toal it took on myself and my husband)...I was bleeding for the last 3 months from my kidneys due to a 10mm+ stone I somehow managed to pass (this was the 3rd one for this pregnancy), I did not like seeing that much blood while pregnant b/c I was always questioning where it was coming from. So, I thought it would be best and that I would feel great and not have to be concerned about becoming pregnant, blah, blah...well, there have been many days that I have wished I could have made a different choice! I know that your body changes after children, but I thought that I had a good change for me for a little while. When my son was 10 months old my period came back...what appeared to be normal cycles began to emerge, or so I thought. Once I stopped nursing him at 13 months, my life became miserable! Each month became worse! I went from having a period every 28-30 days for 6-8 days while nursing to every month progressing to the point where I couldn't even tell you what my cycles were because I would bleed for 14-15days straight and have anywhere from 9-12 days in between without bleeding! This was not what I signed up for!!! I am not talking about just a little spotting either! The mood swings are the worse I have ever had and I feel like I am crazy at times! and the frustration I feel about not being able to have the time with my husband that I would like and not to mention how he feels! (who I have to admit has been very understanding about what has been going on) I don't know if it has to do with the tubal or not, but I can't deal with this until menopause, I am only 29! That could be a long time from now! For the meanwhile, I have gone back on the pill thinking that it should regulate me and give some temporary relief...HA! That is a joke! I am just about finished with my third pack of pills an have not seen much of a change! The only difference is that since this last pack I now spot on almost a daily basis...it is somewhat better than what I was dealing with! But the mood swings are still there! I do think I am going to ask for something stronger. My other option was a treatment called HerOption, where they freeze the lining of the uterus, and 60% of women never get a period again, and I think only 1% do not have any difference and the rest only spot for a few days to hours, of course at this point I think I would be the 1%! My other option would be a hysterectomy...which sounds so much more permanent to me than the tubal. I know that I am not going to have any more children, but it just seems so invasive to me at this point in my life....anyway, sorry for rambling on, but I try not to let all of this consume my life and just tell myself it will get better soon. I deffinitly think that my mood swings are related to the hormonal issues....I wish we had a reset button to put our bodies back in order! Maybe I'll try a new doctor....
Chrissy